Why is it that when certain people get hurt they lash out in a very negative, volatile way?
I've never understood this approach. If your goal is to hang onto something you are losing and you are hurt that you are losing that thing, why would you try to beat that very thing down? Wouldn't you work to reconnect and rebuild the love and tenderness that has slowly slipped from your grasp?
My guess is that this person never loved in the first place, they viewed the other as a possession and have anger that their "property is being taken. That this gives them the right to demean and defame the property like an abused dog to shame it into feeling small and weak as if it has no worth and coming back to the property owner is it's only solace.
Consider the following:
If two people are meant to be together it is through thick and thin. They will remain friends in the hard times, they may fight but they will never degrade or push the other away. Remaining friends doesn't mean they become solely friends. Passion must exist in their interactions with one another until the end of breaths.
Never in this equation should we ever sacrifice our needs; whether it be passion or respect.
Mean people suck
I've never understood this approach. If your goal is to hang onto something you are losing and you are hurt that you are losing that thing, why would you try to beat that very thing down? Wouldn't you work to reconnect and rebuild the love and tenderness that has slowly slipped from your grasp?
My guess is that this person never loved in the first place, they viewed the other as a possession and have anger that their "property is being taken. That this gives them the right to demean and defame the property like an abused dog to shame it into feeling small and weak as if it has no worth and coming back to the property owner is it's only solace.
Consider the following:
If two people are meant to be together it is through thick and thin. They will remain friends in the hard times, they may fight but they will never degrade or push the other away. Remaining friends doesn't mean they become solely friends. Passion must exist in their interactions with one another until the end of breaths.
Never in this equation should we ever sacrifice our needs; whether it be passion or respect.
Mean people suck
